We will never know how much we hurt them.




Everyone has their own weak spot, whether it's look, figure or personality. Whether it's big or small, it's still a weak spot.

Some tried to hide it, while others tried to put up a brave front. But no matter how they tried, whenever someone touches it, laugh it or tease about it. They will get affected, tried hard to laugh along but once they are alone, feeling lonely. Tears might stream down their cheeks; mind will fill with those mocking where others had already forgotten.

It's always easy to laugh at someone. But have you ever think that that someone might get mentally abused by your without-a-think mocking? And they might remember it for life?

Many people said those people who went through cosmetic surgery are fake. Yes, they are fake but you know why they are willing to go through cosmetic surgery? It’s because they feel insecure about their looks or figure. It’s because everyone keep mocking at their single eyelid, fat nose or even their fats.

After once, twice or third times of cosmetic surgeries, it soon become a self-esteem booster. Because all they remember are," you are ugly, bitch”," why you have such a flat nose?"," why your eyes are so small? Can u even see my face?" or the most common one, “why are you so fat?”

These sound familiar right? Because you have said to people around you before, even I said it before. We usually think that it's okay to tease our friends or family members but we never know how much we mentally abused them.

So instead of mocking each other's weak spot, why not praise their strength? I don't mean boot licking, but if they really do something well, why not say a simple," good job" or "hey u are really good in this stuff, it's good that u did helped out." I don't mean saying it sarcastically but say it with the bottom of your heart.

P.S/ Many times we only see the others’ bad or weak side but we usually don’t notice their good side. It’s like your eyes tend to ignore the sight of your nose when it’s there. So clear your eyes now and start noticing your nose friends or family’s strength.

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